Posted 3 years ago 
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Today someone asked me ” What is the one thing in a guy that really gets you?” and although he was asking for his own benefit I’m almost glad he did because I realized exactly what it is I’m looking for; I’m resisting the urge to relive the Scooby Doo Days and say JINKIES!.
The one thing I’m looking for is to feel safe.. not safe in the physical sense of the word but in a very, very different way. A way that’s not so easy. Most men are perfectly capable of protecting you from most of the dangers you’d be faced with but how many can honestly say THEY won’t hurt you.. that they won’t take advantage of you being vulnerable? Even the ones that make that kind of promise, you don’t always believe. Even if you do believe, its really not a conscious decision you can make.. to take down that wall, its something that just occurs, which is what shocked me most about this realization. There’s nothing someone can do to prove that its okay to let your guard down, there’s just something that triggers your feeling of content, and allows you to feel at ease -It’s all on a subconscious level. All of sudden you just realize that it happened, and your okay with it, whether the relationship works out or not.
So weird…
B.
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